Reclaim Control from Controlling People!

Free to Be™, is the key to knowing exactly who you are dealing with – making it possible  to successfully manage relationships, sidestep power struggles, and take charge of your own emotions so that you can more effectively achieve your personal and career objectives. 

FREE for the first 30 people!

Take advantage of this special offer before the regular price of $35.95 goes into effect.

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Regaining Control Doesn't Start With Tips and Tricks.

It Starts With You.

A defining ingredient in the human condition is the desire for control. In our earliest years, we all compete for control, but soon recognize this as a problem as we grow older. However, some individuals never grow beyond their need for control – becoming entrenched in stubbornness, bossiness, and anger. Unfortunately we all enter into relationships with these people, whether through personal or professional situations. 

When it comes to self-help, we like tips and tricks. They can be helpful, but ultimately they don’t solve the real issues of life. More often than not, they just result in more problems. So what do you do? You want to keep your cool around these people, but if pushed too far or too frequently, you can snap. This is no way to live, is it? You want something different, and frankly you deserve better.

To address this, I’ve created an entirely new approach for anyone who’s dealing with a controlling person in their life. A system that will free you to act upon your own insight and capabilities instead of having to continually navigate other’s power contests and traps. After all, being Free to Be™ is a means to a greater end – the relationship peace and aspirations you so rightly deserve.

What I’m about to show you will clear a path for you to achieve more satisfaction in your personal and professional relationships by actually focusing less on the controlling person, and more on you. The results look like this:

  • Tremendous growth in your personal and professional relationships
  • Better use of your time allowing you to cultivate the relationships that matter most
  • Realize higher levels of self-assurance
  • Confidently contribute more value to your key initiatives. 
  • Greater fulfillment from providing your true self to others.

This is exactly what makes Free to Be™ different from anything else you may have seen.

What if You Could Rediscover the Real You, 

and Achieve the Full Potential of Your Personal and Professional Relationships?

Get a special preview of Free to Be™ in the videos below!

Free to Be™ Preview #1

Like you, I understand the complications that come along with any controlling person relationship. You want to experience all that life has to offer but trying to navigate the countless landmines set by the controller ends up squandering your valuable time and sucking the life right out of you. It may feel that you are at their mercy, but in truth, you can transcend the controllers ability to impact your life so that no matter how they behave, you will remain in charge of your life and your goals.

Free to Be™ Preview #2

Even in the best of circumstances, it’s impossible to steer clear of every controller. Whether it’s your new boss or the spouse you’ve been living with for 20 years, their overbearing behavior, aggitation and a lack of empathy can threaten to run you right off your essential path.

Free to Be™ Preview #3

Whether personal or professional, you desire an authentic, satisfying, successful life. You want to be proactive, not reactive. You want the power to effectively manage your emotions so that you can live and work in peace. You’ve always envisioned yourself in rewarding relationships with those at home and at work, but that reality seems just out of reach.

Well, I’ve got good news. Free to Be™ was designed for YOU!

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Free 7-Tactics Guidebook!

This is a powerful resource that you can use to take back control from the controlling people in your personal or professional life. For more than 35 years Les Carter, Ph.D has used this system to help individuals regain their own personal control from controlling people and keep it. With this free report he’ll help you get started!

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Hi, I'm Dr. Les Carter

Best Selling Author, Psychotherapist, and Expert on Controlling Behavior

I’ve appeared in over 3000 radio broadcasts including 11 years with call-in talk show, “The Minirth-Meier Clinic.” I’ve conducted seminars and workshops across America, including:

  • Breaking Free from the Anger Trap
  • You’re Not the Boss of Me – Narcissism Workshop
  • Managing Conflict in the Workplace
  • The Affair Crisis Plan

Not only do I have 35 plus years as a practicing psychologist with over 60,000 counseling sessions, but I’ve had my fair share of dealing with controlling people both in my professional environment and in my personal life as well. If anyone knows how it feels to face people who simply want to ensnare you within their webs of tension and conflict – I certainly do.

If you’re dealing with this type of exasperating conflict in your life – I hear you loud and clear.

Imagine if I could show you a better way? How would you feel if you knew you could take back the individual you really are so you don’t have to live tied up in emotional knots?

First, I need to share an important truth with you: You may never be able to change the controlling person in your personal or professional life. 

But if you will apply the seven life changing principles I will teach you in this course, you can become disentangled from them and the situations they try to ensnare you in. Only then can you find the peace and aspirations you so rightly deserve.

And I’m going to show you how.

Here's everything you'll get in my master course,

Free to Be

Guidance

After you discover the truths that controlling people strive to keep hidden – you’ll be able to negotiate and resolve issues while maintaining your healthy life goals.

Community

You’ll have unlimited access to the Free to Be™ private group community page, where people from each the workshop continue to connect and support each other.

Strategy

Learn field-tested, advanced relationship strategies through live instructional video lessons, step-by-step tutorials, and indispensable downloadable content.

Tools

Restore and refine your communication, relationship priorities, self-confidence, and boundaries using powerfully effective tools that accompany each session.

Perspective

Reframe mental models using powerful action plans that transform controlling relationships for optimum effectiveness and a greater ability to achieve your personal goals.

Strengthen

Operating from a standpoint of competence and self-knowledge, you can finally introduce powerful and positive contributions to any relationship that involves controllers.

Whether you’re looking to prevent entanglement and stress in future relationships or you want to free yourself from current ambushes and pain, Free to Be™ gives you the vision, path, and process to reach a new level in your personal and professional life. This live comprehensive 4-lesson online course is packed with (resources) and (tutorials) to help you reclaim control so that you can experience real living.

Four Simple Steps to Regain Control

Free to Be™ is simple to understand and fast to implement.
There are four steps/sessions to begin regaining control and reclaiming your life.

Avoiding the Seven Traps Set by Controlling People

Controllers tend to follow predictable patterns and can be both offensive and defensive. They use combative questions. They punish. They can be readily critical. I will show you how to recognize their patterns so you won’t be pulled into their snares of emotional dysfunction. I will teach you how to spot their traps, and then confidently sidestep them with discernment and self-command.

I’ll also teach you how the controller uses a covert language called Imperative Thinking which the controller uses to promote their agenda on you. 

I will show you a simple strategy called the Language of Freedom that will allow you to maneuver out of their communication games giving you the ability to choose your own direction, much to the controller’s dismay.

Five Secrets for Living in Freedom

Want to know a secret? Controllers are insecure – masking a hidden neediness and emotional dependency. I’ll teach you to manage your relationship so you’ll never fall into states of codependency but live with a confident emotional mastery instead.

You will discover how the controllers insecurity is an element of fear causing them to behave in an offensive manner. I will teach you strategies that use calm yet strong communication techniques enabling you to sidestep their heavy offensive-defensive tactics so that you can begin to experience real relational freedom.

Five Powerful Tactics to Use When Responding to the Controller

Controllers have poor anger management skills generally because they are hurt people. Their unresolved inner tension (and not you) is what’s driving their anger which is an attempt to place you in charge of their healing – a guaranteed failure for you.

Instead, I’ll show you how to recognize what lies behind their anger so you can successfully respond to them with poise and clearness that fully supports your intention and objectives.

Five Boundary Strategies to Use with the Controller

Controlling people prefer to set the pace inside any relationship. Unfortunately, most people don’t have a solid strategy to establish limits, and quickly find themselves falling back under their control. Let me show you how to easily analyze their strategy, determine which boundary strategy to use, allowing you to choose the preference and direction that makes sense for you.

I know that controllers love to push against their boundaries, so I’m also going to teach you five internal adjustments for maintaining your resolve to remain true to yourself.

More Control Means More Opportunity!

You could experience a dramatic increase in your ability to focus on your real relationship priorities that produce personal and professional growth now and in the future. Imagine your ability to…

Nurture Key Relationships

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Recognize Emotional Traps

Experience Growing Peace

Circumvent Their Gameplay

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Strengthen Communication

Achieve Greater Self-Belief

Can you imagine what it would feel like to finally have the FREEDOM to devote yourself to the most important priorities in your personal and professional relationships every day instead of whenever the controller allows your input. Free to Be™ is the essential means to release your true relationship potential.

Here’s Your Chance to Regain Control!

Free to Be™ free enrollment is available for a short time only.

Free to Be™ Workshop Enrollment

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Within 24 hrs you’ll be sent intructions for attending the Free to Be™ workshop to the email address you provioded.

Note: sometimes email from me might land in your promotions, “all mail,” or junk mail folders. Gmail is especially notorious for sticking emails in strange places. Please check all those places if you haven’t heard from me.

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Session 1

September 12th, 6:30 pm
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Session 2

September 14th, 6:30 pm
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Session 3

September 19th, 6:30 pm
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Session 4

September 21st, 6:30 pm

The Free to Be™ workshop

will be conducted on a closed Facebook Live platform allowing full audio/video as well as live interaction between Dr. Les Carter and the participants.

When you register, you’ll receive an email with a link to the welcome page and instructions to get you started.

FREE for the first 30 people!

Take advantage of this special offer before the regular price of $35.95 goes into effect.

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Free Report: 7 Tactics to Release You From the Controller's Grip

This is a powerful resource that you can use to take back control from the controlling people in your personal or professional life.

For more than 35 years Les Carter, Ph.D has used this system to help individuals regain their own personal control from controlling people and keep it. With this free report he'll help you get started!

Simply enter your first name and email address to get my free report.

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Free Report: 7 Tactics to Release You From the Controller's Grip

This is a powerful resource that you can use to take back control from the controlling people in your personal or professional life.

For more than 35 years Les Carter, Ph.D has used this system to help individuals regain their own personal control from controlling people and keep it. With this free report he'll help you get started!

Simply enter your first name and email address to get my free report.

Success!