Cornering Questions

Why Accusing Queries Don’t Work

Season 1, Episode 21

Confrontations are part of any ongoing close relationship. It can actually be good to air out differences as a means of keeping a clean slate. Some people, however, confront by asking questions that accuse, shame, or embarrass the recipient. Predictably, a very awkward standoff can result. This podcast will identify healthy alternatives to this crooked manner of making a point.

Cornering Questions

by Les Carter, Ph. D. | MarriagePath Radio

Something to Think about

In this episode, we identified the following characteristics about confrontations:

  • Cornering questions represents a crooked way of expressing needs and feelings.
  • Virtually never will you get a clean response when you try to make a point via questions.
  • Behind the question can be a legitimate sentiment, so it would make sense to flatten out the question and simply state your need.

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“When you ask loaded questions, especially in moments of conflict, what is the likely response you will receive?”

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